Cremation is becoming increasingly common. It is often less expensive than traditional burial, and it uses fewer resources. Often, there is no embalming, so the chemicals used to preserve the body for a traditional viewing are not required. If the family opts not to have a viewing, there is usually no casket. The funeral home or crematory will return the cremated remains in a temporary container. The family then has a few choices:
- Bury or scatter the remains immediately;
- Select keepsake urns and divide the ashes among several family members and friends;
- Select a single permanent urn for the cremated remains, and either keep or bury the ashes. For Catholics, burial in consecrated ground is the sanctioned practice.
Families that opt to purchase an urn face several choices at their local funeral, and thousands of choices online. Here are some tips on making the right decision.
Take your time.
Unlike burial, where the choice of a casket is an urgent matter, cremation allows the family time to grieve and reflect before selecting a permanent urn. It also makes comparison shopping easier, with less time pressure.
Remember the loved one's values and personality.
Did he or she enjoy the outdoors? Golf? Was the loved one an artist, a member of the military, or a person of faith? The Internet allows consumers to find just the right urn that honors a loved one's unique character. There are biodegradable urns for environmentalists, American-made urns for those who took pride in their country, and even urns made of lead crystal.
Price and value.
Some select cremation based on its price relative to burial. As there are urns to suit all personalities, there are urns to fit all budgets. When comparison shopping, beware of the deal that is too good to be true. Look for providers who are members of organizations like the Better Business Bureau, and don't be afraid to pick up the telephone and ask questions. This is an important decision, and you deserve exceptional service.
